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Monday, November 28, 2011
My Connections to Play
When I was a little girl, my mom and grandmother was the people that made me and my cousins go outside to play. My mom was a teacher in headstart and never believe in letting children sit around adults and listen to their conversations. She love the outside. We had this really big garden, and each year we would plant and grow our vegetables. My most found of my childhood would be the day my mom bought me a bike. I rode my bike from sun up to sun down. While I was lear to ride, I was trying to
I trying to do a turn around without stepping off my bike. Needless to say, I did the turn around and stepped on a piece of glass and cut my foot. That did not stop me from riding a bike I would get a new bike every other Christmas and I even took my bike to college.
I love to jump rope. I would jump and make many game up and as I jumped. My friend and I would turn the rope really fast and called it the "hot peas". I learn to do the double dutch rope jumping. I would always play that.
One thing my mom and grandmother would make sure that I played close by home. There was a park close by but I was never allowed to go there to play. I had to stay close to home. My mom would say we have the same thing in our yard as that's in the park, dirt.
Today, children do not play like they use to. My kids in my house will not go outside unless I go outside. If I go walk they go for a walk. If I ask them to let go ride a bike that's a whole different story. No one wants to ride a bike take a walk, play hiding-go-seek, mother my I, or any the fun game I played as a child. I do get the children at my center play. And they think that's the most amazing thing to see me play just like them.
Saturday, November 12, 2011
RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION
RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION
A relationship should be one that is being together, doing things that one may like to do, going to the movies, going out to eat dinner or just sitting at home looking at a good movie or playing family games. Having a conversation about life or what just maybe going on in your life. Someone to laugh with be there when the times are hard and lend a helping hand with anything that you may need. Be a parent when the either parent can not be there.
Over the years, I have a cousin who is like a sister. We talked our problems with each other. We go on vacations, shopping, and just about anything that you could imagine a sister could be. Second, there are three kids that I have been apart of their lives for the past three years. They have come to be apart of my family since they do not have a family to share the love they have in their heart. I have given them a place to stay in my home and place in my heart. Along with my own three children, we do all the things families do. We have family night, attend church, and go to school programs and most of all a special bond with one of the children who is a six year boy that I can not release. He calls me ‘mom’ and he never let me out of his sight. He has a lot of growing and developing to do including discipline, respect and hyperactivity. As his new mom we are working on those things and I know it will come with time. I try to keep involved sports to learn how to interact with other children not only with children at home or school.
As a child care professional, I feel that I can help this child grow to be the best child ever. He may not know the ways he should go, but I will show him love with discipline.
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